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Porn Star Saturdays Revisited: Tommy Defendi

Update- Tommy is currently my favorite porn star. I’ve got a thing for beards at the present, and ugh…. he just turns me on so much. Plus, he is one of the few people that can actually look cute while sucking on a dick.

Tommy got into the porn business when he moved from Chicago to South Florida with his cousin. He was waiting tables and decided to post an add on craigslist for stripping services, etc., when someone contacted him about porn. He sent in pictures, and as I seem to say every single friggin’ week… the rest is there for us to see!

Tommy prefers working on DVD like porn movies as opposed to strictly website stuff. In his words, ” I started off on websites but ever since I started working with dialogue, I really like the DVD work. I like being on set for three or four days. I feel more professional than showing up for three hours and leaving.”

Also an escort, Tommy seems to enjoy that work as well. He says clients appreciate his openness and amicability. Apparently most escorts just want the money and according to him, can be assholes. you can find him on Rentmen, ps.

Tommy doesn’t really watch the final scenes of the movies he does- he relies on bloggers and fans to tell him how he’s doing. Speaking of fans, in an interview he was asked if he enjoyed doing some of the different events where he interacts with fans and if he ever gets hit on. His reply: “I love it. Everyone is a lot of fun and you get to just be fun and crazy and make people smile. I love when I meet a fan and takes pics or flirt and it makes their day, it does the same for me. I do get hit on a lot, but hey, I’m in porn and I’m part of a fantasy; that’s what it is all about.” I could have a whole discussion about the fantasy of porn and relating it to real life, but I’d rather not ruin your boners. Maybe someday I’ll open up a forum on the blog and we can chat to our heart’s content. But anyway…


The hotness of the pic makes my pants much tighter. Mmmmm. Where was I? oh yes….

His very first scene, he remembers being “petrified” and shaking. Luckily he was working with a small number of people (behind the scenes, I don’t mean like only a few guys in the orgy- it was a one on one scenario) who helped calm him down and perform to his fullest. But, he does say the worst scene he has ever done was the one in which he bottomed for the first time. He says that it really was his first time and he was so focused on the pain it was difficult to do.

Tommy says he will continue to shoot porn as long as he is hired and in demand. Its been enjoyable for him so far… how did he sum up the past few years? Oh, that’s right… “Time flies when you are fucking!” I don’t think that’s quite the saying, but I’ll go with it 😉

See more of Tommy over at Cocky Boys! Just Click Here!

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7 thoughts on “Porn Star Saturdays Revisited: Tommy Defendi

  1. I love Tommy and all the work he has done for some of the smaller companies all the way to his work with Falcon and Raging Stallion. And now he has really outdone himself with his work with the ever growing Cockyboys. Their stuff is so fucking hot these days…
    Love these pix…he is yummy

  2. I don’t have a fantasy about tommy but if I ever had the chance I would be the happiest man in the world just to have a date with him , go to dinner somewhere nice and be able to just sit and talk about anything that comes up at the moment learn about him and where he wants to be in the future and what he would expect from his partner or just what it is he wants out of life, anything would be great just even to hear him laugh he has a wonderful laugh his eyes are so sexy when he is excited but mostly his smile that’s the killer smile I look for in a man, to me he is the perfect man, talented sexy and passionate. yeah guess this is really a boring post but hell that is just how I feel about tommy even though I don’t know him , man what I do to get to meet the man in person
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  3. OMG… just found tommy!!!
    and now he has a new fan 😉
    does anybody know if he´s still doing escort?????

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